He said no. So I explained this to him. That hesitation you felt. That instinctive doubt. That is what women carry every single day. When they walk home alone. When they get into an Uber. When they notice someone following them. When they check the back seat before closing the door. You cannot write “not all men” publicly, then privately admit you do not trust men with the people you love most. You cannot ask women to lower their guard while relying on that same caution to protect your own famil