💔 4 Deadly Signs Predicting Divorce with 92% Accuracy! 💔 Dr. John Gottman, a leading couples therapist, has revealed the top predictors of divorce: 1️⃣ Criticism: Constantly nitpicking your partner creates unresolved friction. 2️⃣ Defensiveness: Taking complaints personally breeds more tension. 3️⃣ Stonewalling: Silent treatment blocks resolution and leads to breakups. 4️⃣ Contempt: Long-standing resentment turns into contempt, signaling deeper issues. Understanding these signs can save your r
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In John Gottman’s research, he identified 8 predictors for divorce. These predictors have the potential to predict the success or failure of a relationship with over 90% accuracy. One of these predictors is the escalation of the 4 Horsemen: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. Being honest is important. Speaking truthfully is crucial. Having needs is universal. BUT - criticism is not a necessary component in communicating these things. Couples headed for divorce use far more crit
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